Young Adult Media Immersion

19 January 2025

If it's not obvious, I don't watch a lot of TV or movies. Not out of disdain for the medium(s)/or anything—I've actually wanted to start watching more recently, but passive media hasn't been something I've found engaging for a long time now. Books don't fire off nearly as many subliminal stimuli as anything else, which means you have to consciously focus on the text to actually experience them. Video games need at least the minor consent of your inputs to progress (think visual novels), but plenty pose barriers passable only through mechanical competency to get through them (think about whatever game the men in your life puff themselves up about). TV and movies, on the other hand, chug along whether you're paying attention or not, which means they can wash over you whether you're intently watching or just sitting in a half-dazed stupor.1

Anyway, pseudoscientific hunches and/or grievances aside, subjecting myself to the idleness of a TV show or movie that I don't particularly like makes for an off-putting experience. That was embodied by the first show I tried watching for this discussion...

Barris, K. & Wilmore, L. (2018—2024). grown-ish [TV series]. Freeform.

grown-ish, a spin-off from ABC's black-ish, leaving the nest of both its original network and target demographic by running on the young-adult-aimed Freeform. The reasons I settled on this show are twofold: it first aired in 2018, the year I transferred to a four-year university, potentially giving me a sense of what kids my age were "supposed" to be watching, and 2) since it's set in college, they don't have to do the thing where they cast legally grown adults as high school underclassmen.

grown-ish stars a Yara Shahidi playing the eldest daughter of black-ish's central family, having left her nest for university on the youthful high that the world will be hers to conquer—only to quickly realize that she, in fact, does not know a single thing. Shahidi's disembodied voice narrates her retrospective epiphanies over the whole show, be they about lingering annoyances from the parent show, or the quirks of her soon-to-be friends, an ensemble cast of a diverse cadre of backgrounds akin to the California college setting. 

grown-ish's first episode is fun when it pokes fun at their stereotypes hanging around their identities—but when it came to its delicate emotions, the show takes no chances. Every character sounds off their personal insecurities in short sequence (I think?), and for the central conundrum, Shahidi's regret over abandoning a possible friend to death by inadvertent embarrassment at a frat party, her future self narrates every stage of her then-mental state the entire time. It's nice, it's safe, it gives a firm moral compass for adults to nod along to and young adults to follow. It also might as well be the show giving you a SparkNotes analysis as it plays. Which leaves no room for interpretation, no room for the viewer to have their own conversation. Obviously, this is very much a case of my complaining that a cup labeled "regular" has a "regular" drink inside. One episode doesn't give me much license to call it bad, but it sure isn't my cup of tea.


McCraney, T. A. (2019—2021). David Makes Man [TV series]. OWN.

After that disappointment, I immediately fell back on my pretentious kick by reaching for arthouse-y productions that I don't entirely understand, in the form of David Makes Man. Debuting in 2019 on OWN, David Makes Man is set in Miami during the early aughts, following the titular Dai (Akili McDowell) as he's pulled along by the many complications Black folks are ensnared within—which he yanks on for just as knotted reasons. Early into the first episode, Dai's teacher at his magnet school poses the question of "where do you come from?" For Dai, that answer is the projects—and as an impoverished Black boy attending a prestigiously bougie magnet school across town, the question "where are you supposed to go?" hangs over the rest of the show. 

All the trappings of Black masculinity are here: caretaking for a sibling in the absense of a father, the compulsion to prove oneself through reckless bravado and swagger, the inevitable enmeshing with drug business, putting on airs to hide the evidence of poverty among polite society, all crashing against each other in any given moment. Many of these are complicated by the lingering specter of a long gone mentor from Dai's past, appearing and disappearing to throw Dai off guard with dry encouragement and pose evocative questions, done so casually to the point that I wouldn't be sure if he were still dead if marketing copy didn't plainly state so. That is just one of the many magical realist iconography running throughout the show—David Makes Man was created by Tarell Alvin McCraney, writer of the 2016 classic Moonlight, so I'd imagine many of the same techniques are used here. As Black of a portrait the show is, many of Dai's struggles are just the same for kids Dai's age—but the depth of the portrayal makes the show more than compelling for adults, too. Individual episodes run almost an hour each, so I only had time to watch two before writing this, but I am almost certain to finish the entire series before the semester is over. 


Wilde, O. (2019). Booksmart [Film]. Annapurna Pictures; Gloria Sanchez Productions.

In comparison to my TV experience, my choice of movie was much less deliberate: simply picking one of the titles listed in this discussion at random, which was Booksmart. I am quite glad I did, because while it is a great movie, my whims ended up playing into The Point of the movie. On their last day of high school, resident teachers' pets and overachievers Molly (Beanie Feldstein) and Amy (Kaitlyn Dever) bumble through their boisterous, carefree classmates as aloof and snobbish as ever, safe in the knowledge of their uniquely prestigious universities awaiting them after graduation. Of course, since this is Los Angeles, home of numerous multinational corporations and all the associated inflated expectations that are inflicted on its youth, many of their seemingly carefree, partygoing classmates have just as prestigious prospects awaiting them after graduation—leaving them both wondering just what the point of all of that rule-following was for. Pulled down a peg, the girls promptly decide—and by decide, I mean Molly ropes Amy into—stepping out of bounds to break rules and party as hard as their classmates before it all ends.

Given that description, Booksmart checks off all the boxes you might think: a cast featuring every general class of high school stock character, ill-planned hijinks, innocuous psychadellic drug usage, a whole three extravagant parties at expensive venues, crushes that are quickly crushed without the crushee's doing, explosive misunderstandings with your best friend that are inevitably reconciled just in time for the crowning moment—the works. And while it does go through all those motions, the fact that the protagonists are know-it-all teenage girls with no idea what their peers would do keeps the whole thing fresh. As much as the R-rating might artificially limit its audience, the casual appearance of all the teen taboos are exactly what makes it the truest young adult title here.


1 ^...which is also what both of my mediums of choice are entirely capable of doing, given the absolute stranglehold that pulpy thrillers and freemium mobile games have on their respective landscapes.